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      <image:caption>Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a short-term, results-oriented version of coaching that creates dramatic and significant results. We’ll meet every other week for a 2 hour session to identify and address your relationship issues, evaluate your progress, and work toward your goals. Private coaching commitments last for 3-6 months. $500 USD per 2-hour session</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Dr Pam provides 1:1 individual coaching to clients, 16 and up, for an array of issues. For example, if your partner is reluctant to come in for couples coaching, you can come in for individual relational work. We’ll meet for ONE 2-4 hour session to identify and address your obstacles and set goals to help you make progress toward your joy. $250 USD per hour</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>You and your partner will join me for a 2-3 day, in-person weekend intensive to sort out issues and build deeper intimacy in your relationship. We’ll dive deep into your history as a couple, your dynamics, and family of origin roles. I’ll teach you new skills to set a course for significant change! **These intensives can also be used for couples who are "on the brink" of divorce or for those in a crisis resulting from infidelity. Weekend intensives can take place in Minneapolis or I can travel to meet you at an extra cost.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Join me and a group of other like minded couples for an in-person weekend retreat to build intimacy in your relationship. Choose from a Relational Skills Bootcamp to learn and practice RLT skills or a deep dive Couples Experiential for an intimate, group coaching experience. Weekend intensives take place in Minneapolis.</image:caption>
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